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Only 14% of US men having extramarital affairs are made to use condoms by their mistresses

2018-09-18T00:00:00+02:00

More than 12K active male members of Victoria Milan, one of the world’s most discreet online platforms for those seeking extramarital adventures, were polled to find out if women they cheat with usually request them to use protection when having a sexual encounter
Only 14% of men from the US admit women they have affairs with make them wear a condom, which surprisingly surpasses the global rate of 11%
Scandinavia ranks highest in terms of sexual awareness

With World Sexual Health Day approaching to take place on 4th September, Victoria Milan, one of the world’s most discreet online platforms for those seeking extramarital adventures, conducted a survey to find out whether women who have sexual relationships with married or otherwise attached men request them to use a condom when having an affair.

The results show a shockingly low average rate (11%) of these women requesting their partners to use protection when having their extramarital adventures. According to the 12,104 active male members from 21 countries registered on the social dating network for married and attached people taking part in the survey, despite the fact that this is one of women’s top 10 demands before having a sexual encounter, it still doesn’t rank as one of the most important requests.

“We are completely surprised by this low average rate. This 11% shows the results from 21 different and developed countries where people are aware how important using protection is when having sexual encounters - especially in those outside of one’s marriage - in order to prevent sexually transmitted diseases”, founder and CEO of Victoria Milan Sigurd Vedal explains.

“We believe it’s important to emphasise the importance of using protection in any sexual relationship and on this World Sexual Health Day we’d like to call those women who have encounters with married or attached men as well as those men who have extramarital affairs to action to never forget requesting to wear or use condoms”, claims Vedal.

The most and least sexually aware countries

From the results of this survey, Scandinavian countries such as Norway, Denmark and Sweden rank amongst the most sexually aware regions, with 21, 20 and 16% respectively of the men who participated in the poll confirming women they cheat with request them to wear a condom when having sex.

Countries like the Czech Republic (15%), the US (14%), Germany (12%), the UK (11%), France (11%), Australia (11%), Italy (10%), Finland (10%), Ireland (10%) and South Africa (10%) are placed in the middle.

However, other countries like Hungary (5%), Austria (6%), the Netherlands (6%), Spain (8%) Portugal (8%), Belgium (9%), Switzerland (9%) or Poland (9%) show through their average rates how little women seem to be aware of the importance of requesting the use of protection when having sex. “When it comes to having a sexual encounter, responsibility is 50-50 between men and women”, says Victoria Milan CEO Sigurd Vedal. “But it is still surprising that men don’t receive this demand from women more often when they are in a sexual encounter outside of their long-term relationship”, he explains.

British versus Americans sex battle - who have the highest sex drive?

2018-08-31T00:00:00+02:00

According to a survey conducted with married and attached people from the UK and the US, British men surpass US men in how many times they think about sex and get horny throughout the day as a consequence. However, American women have a more intense sex drive than British women
The findings of the survey show how those British men seeking an affair think more than twice a day about sex (2.07), and that makes them get horny more often than American men (1.97). On the other hand, married or attached women from the US get horny 1.58 times a day, 4.4% more than British women (1.51)

How many times a day do married and attached British people think of sex and get horny as a result? Would you say Americans get horny more often than Brits? Is it true that men get horny more times a day than women, even if they are married?

The latest survey conducted by Victoria Milan, one of the world’s most discreet online platforms for those seeking extramarital adventures, reveals some findings that can answer some of these questions.

Men do think more about sex than women and get horny more often as a result, but who have a higher sex drive: British or American men?

1,388 American members of Victoria Milan, a social dating network for married and attached people seeking a discreet affair, and 1,489 users from the United Kingdom were recently polled to find out how many times a day they think of sex and get horny as a result.

Many sexual researches have been conducted along the years, showing that men think more about sex than women do. According to The Journal of Sex Research, on average males think about sex 19 times a day, while the average woman thinks about sex 10 times a day. However, how many of those times do Brits and Americans really get turned on by those sexual thoughts?

Despite what many may have guessed: married and attached British men get horny 2.07 times per day due to erotic thoughts, which is a figure almost 5% higher than in the case of American men, who, after having thought of something related to sex, get horny 1.97 times a day on average.

Comparing men’s results to women’s, Victoria Milan’s male members from the UK have 27% more sex drive than that of the women, as they admitted to getting horny due to sexual thoughts throughout the day for an average of 1.51 times.

Regarding members from the US, women’s average shows they think of sex and get horny 4.4% more often than women from the UK (1.57 versus 1.51), but American women still don’t reach the sex drive fo the male compatriots, staying 20.3% behind them in this regard.

“Other previous researches showed men think about sex more than women do, but how many of those thoughts lead to actually getting horny is what we really wanted to figure out”, says Sigurd Vedal, CEO and founder of Victoria Milan. “We compared responses from British users to the answers from Americans and surprisingly found that men from the UK get horny more often than those from the US. After having a look at the whole picture, British men seeking an extramarital affair should perhaps look for American women, as they have a higher sex drive that their British counterparts”, Vedal jokes around.

Unfaithful men prefer curvy lovers

2018-08-27T00:00:00+02:00

In recent years, Victoria Milan, one of the world’s most discreet online platforms for those seeking extramarital adventures, conducted a survey to find out how the perfect mistress looked. This survey has recently been repeated and the results have changed, with regard to body shape.
This new, updated poll shows how unfaithful men from South Africa and 21 other countries prefer curvy lovers with long hair and beautiful eyes, over slim women, to embark on an affair with. In 2015, when the first poll was conducted, slim women topped the list.

Despite the incessant portrayal of very slim women in popular media, it seems that men actually prefer a curvier woman - especially for an extramarital adventure! As one of the world’s leading social dating platforms for married and attached people, the team at Victoria Milan was interested to discover the physical attributes that men looking for an affair find attractive. According to this updated survey, that was conducted amongst more than 4,800 male Victoria Milan members, from 22 countries, curvaceous women are now the favored type of women to cheat with.

The previous poll, conducted in 2015, aimed to discover exactly which qualities and attributes made a woman the perfect mistress. At the time, 40.2% of 4,427 men registered on victoriamilan.com chose slim women over curvy (38.6%) to have an affair with. Three years later, however, these men’s physical preferences have changed: now 40.8% of these other 4,803 participants prefer curvaceous mistresses over 35.2% who keep choosing slim lovers.

There are some other physical attributes that are still important for men seeking an affair on this social dating network. For instance, according to the men who took part in the poll, the perfect mistress has long hair - and this attribute that has increased in importance over these past years: from 41.2% to 42.3%.

Power of body positivity: men’s physical preferences have changed

“We wanted to repeat this survey because physical stereotypes have changed a lot over the past years. Consequently, these results show exactly how men’s physical preferences are now different and all types of women are represented in the survey”, says Victoria Milan CEO and founder, Sigurd Vedal.

Physical appearance, however, is more important than personality for men who seek an extramarital affair. In 2015, 67.4% chose appearance over personality (29.6%), while in 2018 physical looks are more important for 70.1% of unfaithful men. For just 26.9% of the participants, personality is more important than physical appearance…

The importance of keeping fit has also increased considerably among men’s preferences as 30.4% of those polled admit that they prefer their mistress to keep fit. According to 28.3% of the men polled in 2018, a woman who is elegant and stylish is prefered; while in the previous survey, this was factor was only important for 11.4% of men seeking an affair.

Do men fantastise about extramartial adventures with curvy women?

“Male stereotypes of women have evolved: it doesn’t matter anymore if they are curvy, slim or average size. We all like healthy and fit people when dating, especially if the aim of the date is to find an extramarital affair. These Victoria Milan members show how their perfect mistresses would look like - but this doesn’t mean they are the type of women they like for a long-term relationship. In fact, in these surveys, participants tend to answer according to their fantasies,” confirm Vedal.

Male Questionnaire:

Which is more important: appearance or personality?

Appearance - 70.1%

Personality - 26.9%

Undecided - 3%

What does the perfect mistress look like? (multiple-choice)

Long hair - 42.3%

Slim - 35.2%

Curvaceous - 40.8%

Beautiful eyes - 33.5%

Tall - 30.6%

Petite - 26.7%

Fit - 30.4%

Short Hair - 13.2%

Elegant fashion style - 28.3%

What personality qualities are most important in a mistress? (multiple-choice)

Kind - 64.5%

Funny/has a sense of humour - 67.6%

Youthful - 45%

Adventurous - 51.3%

Empathic - 24.8%

Reliable - 40.2%

Romantic - 38.2%

Intelligent - 29.4%

Impulsive - 22.5%

Generous - 3.2%

Mature - 5.6%

*Countries included in the study: Australia, Belgium, South Africa, Mexico, Peru, Brazil, Germany, Poland, Switzerland, Slovakia, France, Portugal, New Zealand, Argentina, Spain, Netherlands, Ireland, Greece, Austria, Italy, United Kingdom and United States.

Not on the Lips - Is Not Kissing the New Black?

2018-05-22T00:00:00+02:00

Despite having awesome benefits for a committed couple, the profit does not extend to us all. Kissing isn’t for everyone, but the number of men and women choosing to opt out of a lip lock might be growing. Since making out is certainly not getting less fun, nor less advantageous, the trend seems to be growing in response to the swell in casual dating.

Maybe Julia Robert’s famous role as Vivian, a lovable prostitute, made a bigger impact on us than we realised in the classic film Pretty Woman. Despite his good looks and generous pocketbook, Vivian rejects Edward (played by the totally dreamy Richard Gere), her client and benefactor, from kissing her on the mouth.

The young woman claims she does not kiss clients on the lips because a simple smooch had the power to subject professional lovers such as herself to a case of the feels. This would, of course, be bad for business.

As more of us are experimenting with casual sex where feelings are out, will we find that Vivian was onto something? Should we be avoiding swapping spit to help save face? We set out to discover whether kissing really is the pitfall we were warned against or if the perks outweigh the negatives and we could all stand to snog a little more.

Why the Sudden Turn on Kissing?

Romantic tongue-kisses were not documented anywhere in the world until medieval times. Even now, anthropologists can’t seem to agree on when or why humans began kissing.

Maybe it is something which instinctually occured. Others insist the phenomenon evolved from mothers feeding their infants by chewing and passing food between mouths, which was the common practice before food processors and accessible kitchen tools were available.

These days kissing has become a right of passage for many young people. Spin-the-bottle and 7-minutes-in-heaven are just some of the games that have nudged countless teenagers into experiencing their sexuality. Whether it be in a dark closet or held in the nervous arms of your first S/O, a kiss is an important part courting for many of us.

No one has the time to seduce someone anymore, let alone date them. Swipe-right generations are skipping past the complicated love and romance for simple hookups . Maybe they’re not the gentleman you had thought- Perhaps they’re not telling because there was no kiss to begin with!

Globally

Kissing is not the same courtship staple everywhere. Researchers in the American Anthropological Association set out to determine just how prevalent the display was in other parts of the world.

It might surprise you to know that around 50% of the people in the study did not partake in a romantic or sexual kiss at all. Even more shocking, findings did not extend equally to the whole continent; many had nearly equal parts team lip-lockers and team kissless. The telling sign of those individuals more likely to be caught making out was simply that they live in socially complex societies.

Some of the universal reasons the many groups of people listed for being opposed to kissing was a general dislike for any sexual acts involving the mouth, mouth-play, and often bad hygiene practice was a concern.

Even in some places where kissing is common, it is not always something acceptable to do in public. Kissing in the wrong place could potentially land you with some hefty fines or worse, prison time.

Other situations that may call for a kiss in other cultures include greeting, showing respect, friendship, and goodluck. Kissing has even been used in different social or religious rituals to signify devotion or sacrament.

Weighing Your Options

Kissing “Pros”

1. Boosted immune system

This means snogging you lover gives you both increased protection against colds, but also less symptoms from things such as allergies!

2. Decreases Stress

Aside from the healthy hormones your body produces when you makeout, a good and long kiss can be a form of mutual meditation for you and your lover, allowing you to release any pent up anxiety.

With “digital stress” creeping into our lives in the form of texts, emails, phone calls, and bombardment from the media, we definitely could all use something to help deal with our unease.

3. Reduces Blood Pressure

Since kissing dilates blood vessels and can get your heart pumping even harder, it is great for your cardiovascular health. Not only does locking lips improve heart health, it also decreases the likelihood of tension headaches and performance problems for guys!

4. Helps Ward Off Cavities

While many of us already try and make our mouths fresh for our make-out partners, kissing will keep your mouth even cleaner! Increased saliva production helps wash away cavity-causing plaque, not to mention it’s usually good incentive to go brush.

5. Burns Calories

Don’t cancel your gym membership just yet! A hot and heavy makeout session can burn as many as 16 calories and will also tone up that jawline, but it is definitely not enough for you to stop working out.

Kissing “Cons”

1. It’s Like Drinking Love Potion

We’re not exaggerating. The sexy cocktail of dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin are just some of the chemicals released while you’re making out with your partner. These hormones play a role in us feeling happy, which you might start to associate with being around that person.

Oxytocin specifically is known as the love hormone, but it is so strongly linked to romantic bonding that having too little of it can result in being unable to romantically bond with another person or commit altogether.

2. It’s a Biological Sign of Trust

Your lips may be silent while you’re snogging, but they’re telling your partner a whole lot. Before modern medicine, physical nearness even to close family members meant putting yourself at a certain level of risk. Touching one another means possible catching any virus, bacteria, or parasites they may have.

For this reason kissing subconsciously communicates that you trust this person to some extent. While it might seem minuit compared to full-blown sex, these seemingly small acts wreck enormous havok in our commitment-free sex life because of the subconscious seeds they plant.

3. It’s the Most Balanced Foreplay.

Many people consider this the only sexual act that allows both partners to be on the same playing field. This is because it is the only act where both partners get to penetrate each other at the same time.

This sexual equality is incredibly intimate and can rouse feelings for one another as you both explore the other with identical and incredibly sensitive body parts, no matter your gender or sexuality. Kissing also forces each partner to take a neutral stance and move in tune with one another, despite their naturally passive or assertive character.

4. It Can Make or Break Your Date.

As you share your genetic skill set through your swapped saliva, the dna allows you to assess your partner’s compatibility. This means if this person you’re planning on hooking up with does not mean your biological standards, may just find your libido hitting a brick wall.

While your ability to create healthy children has little to do with how much fun your lover will be in bed, your body will say differently and you’ll be ready to head for the door.

The Consequences of Locking Lips

While couples consider these physiological responses gifts to share, casual lovers may still decide to steer clear with good reason. Not only could locking lips with your casual sex date put a halt to the dirty deed altogether, you also run a much bigger risk of developing more-than-fuck-buddy-feelings for your sexual suitor.

It makes sense that with the shift of courtship and dating into quick and non monogamous encounters that are fast paced and less end goal oriented, comes an equal change in display of intimacy.

Don’t believe us? There’s no better day than today to experiment with your partner and see what fun activities you can come up with in place of your usual makeout sesh. Log into your Victoria Milan account and start chatting up your matches so you can decide for yourself.

How to Get Away With Sexting at Work

2018-04-16T00:00:00+02:00

My, how the hours seem to drag along during the work week! Despite keeping busy and applying all your willpower on your ability to focus, after around a half hour of uninterrupted work, the mind begins to wonder. It’s not a weak constitution or even laziness, it’s science.

Scientists have shown that one of the best ways to maintain higher levels of productivity is to take regular breaks. Despite the cold, hard facts, employers in much of the western world refuse to impose policies that work with our natural biological rhythms.

Rather than attempting to feed the morale of their employees, our workforce is driven by fear-based leadership, which is not only shown to cause a plateau in moral, but also creates resentment and hostility between coworkers. You need not suffer any longer (unless you’re into that sort of thing).

Here at Victoria Milan, we take working hard seriously and in an attempt to resolve this work-time epidemic we’ve done our best to figure out a fun and sexy solution for you and your lover! Since sexting is arguably the best possible break you can take, we’ve taken it upon ourselves to figure out how make even the worst job a little more satisfying.

Sexting is Good for You

Sexting has become a pivotal part of modern day sex and courtship, and this is largely in part of the accessibility and discrete nature of the act. Young adults juggling school and work, entrepreneurs, and ceos alike are all on even playing fields since nearly everyone has a cell phone. This allows even the busiest of individuals to indulge in a little daytime foreplay.

Not only does a good sext sesh make a lovely break for your mind, a terrific use of creativity and writing skills, but it also gets your blood flowing faster and raises your heart rate. This elevated state is the same thing that happens when you exercise, and despite doing little more than moving you hands.

The released endorphins give you a boost of energy and help relieve stress, thus, making sexting the best possible break-time activity for both you and your sex partner!

Know Your Risks

Everyone sends a text or two throughout the day, whether it’s to figure out what’s for dinner, or even to confirm plans you’ve made for the evening. Sure, you know you’re not really supposed to be texting on the clock, but what’s the harm, right?

Things seem to dangle a bit farther past the border between right and wrong when you’re engaging in full conversations with your wife or your lover that lack any real reason except to have fun. Certainly if you were to be caught red handed, so to speak, your boss would be less than pleased with your performance, no? Will this burn you at the big quarterly review?

At the current time in the US, there are not actually any laws in place prohibiting titillating texts during your shift, unless you’re sending unwanted texts to other coworkers or taking sexy pictures at work. Regardless of the legality or the content of your texts, it is very possible you are violating company policies just by sending messages during your shift.

Even if there is no policy on texting specifically, wasting time while you’re on the clock and certainly raunchy messages will definitely land you in the unemployment agency.

The Trick to Sexting At Work

Despite the argument that this is a really beneficial break on your heavily taxed mind and would certainly boost your output at work, your employer is very unlikely to be empathetic to your need for a little afternoon delight and likely has every right to fire you. There’s only one thing to do about these misguided policies - don’t get caught!

Figuring out how to enjoy your grind while on your grind can be pretty complex, especially if you have a job where people are up and walking around. If you work in an office with cubicles, it can be pretty easy, but we aren’t all that lucky.

Fortunately, technology is in our favor and there are some simple ways to sext around these obstacles.

1) Stake out the operation.

No, this isn’t rocket science, but it could cost you your job as well as your professional reputation if you were caught while sending lewd texts. The only kind of deviant you want to be is with your casual date partner!

To ensure you and your partner’s sex life remain out of the gossip train of the office, you need to do a reconnaissance mission a day or two before your first sext sesh. Right, I know, the whole point of sexting is to be spontaneous, but just like sex in real life, successful at-work sexting does too.

Knowing your boss’s usual schedule allows you to plan your sexy conversation around his or her day. Also, determining which of your coworkers are the cutthroat types and brown-nosers are can help you make the most out of your sexy break without getting caught.

2) Preparing ahead of time.

One of the most exciting things you can do is have a little photoshoot in the morning as you’re getting ready so you can stock up on some increasingly seductive pictures, without having to waste too much time working all your angles while also avoiding a breach in company policy by shooting the risqué pics on company property.

This technically starts your foreplay early and will get your creative juices flowing, which will help you avoid running into writer’s block while the heat is on.

Tip: if you send the pictures in reverse order, it looks like you’re getting undressed. Be sure to include one with either just a tie or a sexy pair of heels if you’re brave enough!

3) Seal the deal.

If you really want to turn things up a notch, enjoy your technological sexcapade to the fullest! Beyond sexting and adult dating sites like Victoria Milan, one of the growing trends in sexy technology takes sexting to a whole new level is the ground-breaking advances in remote access sex toys.

Use wifi to control a variety of motorized sex toys that not only have remotes that can reach across the world, but they are also able to be synced with your phones for an exceptionally customizable and portable sexual interaction. Some of these sex devices may be “worn” during actual intercoarse as well as used on their own, so you can keep the party going even after you’re off the clock.

Not a natural Shakespear or Danielle Steel? No problem. Let your hands do the talking in a way typing on any keyboard never could. Many of the teledildonic (aka cyberdildonic) sex toys can be controlled by as many people as you’d like, just as simply as by sending a link inviting them to “take over”. This allows the person to control the vibrations or movements of the device, including intensity, pulsations, and duration all with the swipe of a finger or stylus.

If you’re sexting your partner while they’re at work:

Figure out if the coast is clear.

There is not a much more humiliation or incrimination occurrence than unexpectedly opening a dick pick or an incredibly naughty sext while you have someone in direct view of your screen.

The best way of opening the discussion in a playful but discreet way is by mentioning a really sexy time you two have enjoyed recently, but be vague!

Try: “We had a lot of fun Thursday night, didn’t we?” It will get them thinking about the same things, and they will most likely wait until they’re alone to respond with what they liked about it.

Whatever your job may be, it only hurts to overwork yourself! Even if you’re single or your spouse is a little too traditional, you can still enjoy the most rejuvenating break of your career.

Make the most of your time by adding sexy time into your daily grind so you can reap the many rewards, and ensure you leave feeling accomplished every work day.

Micro-cheating - The subtle betrayal

2018-02-28T00:00:00+01:00

Guide to the new trend in (online) cheating
Surprising numbers from a new research study - one of the world’s first conducted studies on micro-cheating
Between 24% and 88% of people say micro-cheating looks like infidelity

Micro-cheating – a new phenomenon sweeping the globe – is affecting relationships all around the world via social media, laptops and smartphones. The new trend is now under the spotlight, with international media and a new research study shedding light on this startling global phenomenon.

But what is it? And how do you know if you’re guilty of it? A new study has tested a number of examples of micro-cheating to discover more about this new in adultery.

Leading global extramarital site, Victoria Milan and one of Scandinavia’s largest social networks, NextLove – a dating site for divorced and single parents – teamed up to conduct a research study to discover when micro-cheating is considered cheating.

Responses from 6,894 users showed a clear trend: micro-cheating is a variant of infidelity.

What is Micro-cheating?

Micro-cheating can best be described as a series of seemingly small actions - typically digital – that can be perceived as infidelity.

It ranges from lying about one’s relationship status on social media to active and conscious digital practice that the partner is unaware of because it is consciously being hidden from them.

‘Likes’ of images on Instagram and Facebook, or messaging with an ex are examples of this conduct. 88% do not doubt that it is infidelity if it’s nude images are exchanged with another, but even the seemingly innocent ‘like’ of an image on social media is perceived as a sign on infidelity by 24%. It indicates that the partner is emotionally or physically focused on someone outside of the relationship.

“The problem with micro-cheating is that you are not necessarily aware that you are doing it. It may seem harmless to leave a sweet message on someone’s page, but for the partner it can be perceived as a threatening behavior, or at least a signal that there is something wrong with the loyalty and trust in your relationship, “says CEOs and Founder of Victoria Milan and the NextLove network, Sigurd Vedal.

“Whether it’s done consciously or unconsciously, performing actions that can be considered as micro-cheating, is rarely innocent. If one party perceives the digital behavior as a threat or signal that the partner is loosing interest in the relationship, it is a good idea to talk about your boundaries and what you consider to be innocent or damaging behavior in your relationship - also online”, Vedal says.

10 examples of micro-cheating:

Lying about their relationship status on social media.
Keeping an active dating profile
‘Liking’ of old photos or posts on social media
Continuously checking a person’s posts or profile on social media
Texting or contact with someone else - without the partner’s knowledge and attempts to hide it
Deleting messages and phone calls
List a so-called “friend” under a code on your phone, for example the “the dentist”
Engagement with a former boy- or girlfriend or someone you are attracted to, whether in reality or on social media
Share secrets or confide in someone else outside the relationship
Texting with sexual content with someone outside the relationship

The Research Study

The 6,894 users among Victoria Milan’s and NextLove’s members have considered the question:

Do you consider the following as adultery or adultery-like behavior?

Contact a former boy- or girlfriend on social media: 24% say it’s infidelity.
‘Likes’ of old posts or images on social media (an ex or person of the opposite sex - eg a picture from 2016): 37% say it’s infidelity.
Repeat checks or visits to someone else’s or former boy- or girlfriends profile: 41% say it is infidelity.
Lying about one’s relationship status on social media: 54% say it’s infidelity.
Keeping an active dating profile: 58% say it’s infidelity.
Contact with an ex boy- or girlfriend or someone outside the relationship - who is deliberately concealed for you: 62% say it is infidelity.
Establishing a deep emotional contact with someone other than your partner: 68% say it is infidelity.
List a so-called friend under a code on the phone, e.g. the dentist: 75% says it’s infidelity.
Texting with sexual content with someone outside the relationship: 83% say it’s infidelity.
Messaging of nude pictures with someone other than your partner: 88% say it’s infidelity.

Victoria Milan is one of the world’s leading discreet social networks for men and women seeking a discreet affair. The network was launched in 2010 by media executive, Mr. Sigurd Vedal, and is today one of the world’s fastest growing and leading social networks for discreet extramarital affairs, surpassing 5 million members worldwide in more than 33 countries.

How to Master the Open Marriage?

2018-02-28T00:00:00+01:00

Mutual Understanding is the First Step.

Marriage (noun)

Any forms of interpersonal union established in a familial bond that is recognized legally, religiously, or socially, granting the participating partners mutual conjugal rights and responsibilities.

Marriage is an enduring human concept that has been dug up by anthropologists all over the planet. The definition of marriage, what it should include, and what it should definitely exclude, is something that has been debated throughout history, and has it has grown into quite a hot topic in the modern world too.

Open Marriage (noun)

A marriage in which the partners agree that each is free to have sexual relationships with other partners.

Open marriage is one of the very things that has inspired much debate. Its fans claim it is how things were meant to be, and avoids the alternative of eventually growing bored. The critics, who have been often come from the church or legislation, are often concerned that the very definition opposes marriage itself. They are afraid that their spouse will look away and never look back.

Delving in deeper, an Open Marriage is a marriage in which each spouse knows and approves of physical relations outside of the bounds of the relationship. In other words, they’re open to a little extra. Marriage plus.
The only constant when it comes to marriage, open or not, is that there’s a legally binding contract, so whatever is allowed by law can be considered a marriage, and with that definition, marriage will always be changing. An open marriage, on the other hand, is always the legally married couple in a committed relationship, and then one or more sexual flings on the side.
This differs entirely from adultery because your spouse not only aware of your intermarital sex, but is okay with it. Not only does it not offend him or her, they might even go as far as being turned on by the fact that they know you just got some extra on the side.

It can also easily be distinguished from polyamorous relationships because the married couple is not dating or romantically involved with the “others”. The couple has sex outside of the relationship, but nothing else. While the sex affair may be long lasting, it is not a long term relationship.

The couple isn’t relying on their lovers for support, comforting, companionship, or anything in between. In fact, Open Marriages are also known as “consensual non-monogamy”, a committed and stable relationship, but not sexually monogamous.

The different terms for Open Marriage may be new to the nightly news segment, but the concept is nothing new. With a network of adult members approaching 7 million worldwide, Victoria Milan is the fastest growing adult dating network available, making it the best site to join if you and your spouse seek alternative, adult fun.

What about Divorce or Not Marrying?

No matter what you do, you can’t get the curves and angles of that one person’s body out of your mind. The way they touch their lip or cross their leg. It is your body’s release of dopamine that initially caused you to enjoy your time so much with your spouse, and it’s the same thing attracting you to all the others, now.

Despite all the best efforts, the initial sexual desire for a partner eventually leaves, and not just with humans. Almost all mammals and even several species of snakes have been shown growing tired of their mate to the point where sex stops and even erectile dysfunction occurs.

In all of those species, when they presented males with their “new female”, all mental and even physical issues preventing sex with their mate seemed to vanish that very moment, and sexual inspiration struck.

Don’t get too big of a head, ladies. Women of most of these species also showed the same apparent boredom for men they had already had sex with and prefered the unknown males. Numbers don’t lie, and we have about equal numbers of femal members on Victoria Milan looking for some fun.

Monogamous relationships aren’t all bad, but they certainly aren’t for everyone. It is easily arguable that the “natural” way to date is by shacking up with more than one mate and settling with one main. This is, afterall, the most typical scenario in the animal kingdom.

Not only does it feel natural for many couples worldwide, it isn’t about a lack of love or commitment to their partner. Openly Married individuals are wanting to pursue a new activity that they can share and bond over with their spouse.

Can You Cheat in an Open Marriage?

At the end of the day, your spouse has your heart and your future is with them. You might be gung-ho to let your freak flag fly, but if your partner is less than enthusiastic, you need to dial things back a bit.

An open marriage is an agreement to allow each other to be with other people, but at any time either one of you could realise this isn’t for you and rescind the permission. Continuing to engage in casual sex after your partner has put on the breaks is cheating.

Alternatively, even if your partner is still okay with the side sex, breaching your particular agreement and rules you came up with is also crossing a line. If you don’t know if it is going too far, talk to your spouse.

Allow each other to make mistakes, but also to learn from them. Don’t completely condemn your significant other for slipping up, this is uncharted territory for the both of you and they just might not be as adept to change.

Types of Open Marriages

The limits are boundless, but these are some of the most common types of Open Marriages that you are likely to hear about. Any sexual encounter could include more than one of these scenarios or all at once.

Swinging

This is what would be considered your basic Open Marriage scenario, simply describing one or both of the married couple having sex with one or more lovers outside of the marriage.

Group

The married couple incorporate one or more individuals into their sex.

Cuckolding

One of the married couple has sex with someone outside of the marriage as the other watches. They don’t have to join, but sometimes can be invited to participate in the fun.

Partner-Swapping

This is very similar to Group, since there are multiple other individuals involved, however, this is exclusively other couples joining in and each of them having sex with one of you and your spouse.

No matter what you and your partner desire, you’re bound to find what you are looking for when you log onto Victoria Milan. Multidimensional searching takes the work out of finding the right lover by narrowing down your results to only the best options.

How to Suggest an Open Marriage

It’s okay to be curious about the possibilities an open marriage can offer you, and you’re not alone in thinking about it. If monogamous relationships aren’t enough for you but you still love your spouse, you’ll have to share this aspect of yourself with them eventually.

More married and dating couples are “Opening Up” to the idea of getting more out of their marriage by allowing sex on the side. If the marriage is true and they love you, they will warm up to the notion soon enough.

Us We’s.

What do I mean by that? “We could have some fun trying this.”, “Could we talk about the possibility of an open marriage?”, or even “I would like you to try sleeping with another girl so you can show us what you learned.”

Avoid the Lingo.

There are a lot of terms that basically mean sleeping with multiple people, more or less. Rather than using terms such as swinging or open marriage, describe exactly what changes you’d have in mind for the relationship. Don’t leave these things up for interpretation.

Let Them Go First.

The easiest way to put their unease to rest is by offering them the chance to try their hand at casual dating for a while you sit back and enjoy hearing about their exciting encounters and supporting them through the experience. If they were feeling like this was your excuse to mess around with someone you’ve had a crush on, making things about them will put them at ease.

Communicate Now, Fuck Later.

Moving slowly and discussing the steps along the way will ensure no one us caught by surprise or left behind. Ensure your partner that they are who they want to be with, and saying yes now doesn’t mean you can’t slow things down or stop later on. This is about pleasure seeking, so if you two stop enjoying it at anypoint, call it quits!

Rework and Try Again.

Just like a monogamous relationship, Open Marriages are all different, change over time, and require adjusting. Even trying an Open Marriage in to begin with is about trying something slightly out of the norm that sounds like it might be more your style. If you find certain things don’t work, discuss what may work better and try differently next time.

On Victoria Milan you can set up an account with your profile and begin browsing interesting, nearby matches with your spouse. Let them know what you might be looking for or show them a lover they could be into.

Planning to Open Up

You and your spouse need to lay out detailed ground rules. And even once you’ve set out the schematics, you have to meet someone else who is not only cute but you can stand to talk to, before hoping they’ll be on board to set sail for your little rendezvous.

Above all, know that nothing you two decide is laid in stone. The best way to ensure everyone is happy is by keeping discussions open and frequent. Don’t leave any feelings buried, and encourage your spouse to be honest.

Discuss if and when you will tell eachother about perspective lovers. Some couples even go as far as to need their spouse’s approval to go ahead and bang it out.
Say exactly what it is you see the relationship looking like. What would change? What would stay the same? How often do you get together with your lovers? How many lovers will you have?
Plan for the worst. Accept that even if you try this exciting new kind of dating, it may leave you feeling less than pumped. If either of you test the waters and don’t like what you find, how will you two proceed?

Planning to open your marriage is the next biggest step after getting marriage. You know dating and married life are vastly more complex than being single ever was. Of course, you may have considered it already, but aren’t things going to get even more complicated adding someone new?

The answer is yes. Taking on more of anything whether it be hobbies, jobs, sex partners, or kittens, always means more work. You have convinced your spouse to give it a try, but there is still a long road ahead.

No matter what the two of you decide, your matches await on Victoria Milan. It takes just minutes to register with the site and then take as much time as you’d like browsing profiles for a little inspiration. Sexual adventure awaits when you open up a little.

The ability to adapt, communicate, and go with the flow are your best chances to mastering the art of Opening your Marriage, and Victoria Milan is your best chance to find the perfect match to help you two begin.

Why You Should Have More Sex Today?

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As if you needed more to love, there’s more to sex that you don’t know and yet you’ve been benefiting from it all along. In addition to feeling really great, getting laid has more to offer you than you ever expected.

Haven’t got someone to seduce? Today it is easier than ever to get online and talk to sex positive singles near you. Take your sex life into your own hands with Victoria Milan, a dating site hell bent on helping everyone find satisfaction.

We all know sex can bring us babies and create incredible bonds between the participants, but scientists continue to discover even more about the profound influence sex has on us. Chalk these positives down as some more reasons to get down with your partner today.

Not only is knowledge power, but it’s pretty fun realizing some of the amazing health benefits your favorite hobby can bring you. Search through our 6 million members for the perfect sex partner and start enjoying the benefits of having sex.

1) Strengthens Immune System

He’s not just being sleazy and trying to convince you to fuck. When he tells you sex will cure you of your ailment, it’s the truth.

Sexually active men and women benefit from more of the antibodies that help fight off germs and viruses. Having sex once or twice a week is enough to see a noticeable difference in your number of sick days.

2) Improves Pelvic Strength

The inability to control one’s bladder, or incontinence, is something many men and many more women can face in old age.

Regular pelvic floor exercises prevent most men and women from facing bladder control problems. Not only do strong pubococcygeal muscles mean a more graceful descent into elderly life, it also gives better control to even stronger orgasms.

Along with using different techniques including kegels and ben wa balls, a good, old fashioned orgasm causes intense contractions that work just as well and are free to do as often as you’d like!

3) Reduces Risk for Prostate Cancer

An orgasm is known to help clear toxins from our bodies. Ejaculating at least once a month has been shown to be enough for men to reap the rewards.

4) Easy Exercise

As you may have noticed, sex can be a really great workout. The chemicals released from a good lay are the same as the ones that give athletes their “runner’s high”.

The calories burned depend completely on the positions, duration, and how engaged your muscles are, but this is sexy workout is worth squeezing into your busy schedule.

5) Helps Heart Health

A 16-year study done by the New England Research Institute found that men who had sex at least twice a week were found to be half as likely to suffer from a stroke, compared to those who had sex less than once a month.

It was thought that both the emotional and physical effects contributed to their reduced risk for hypertension and other heart problems.

6) Natural Pain Killer

When a woman’s clitorus and vagina are physically stimulated, pain relieving endorphins are released. The natural analgesic quality is all thanks to having a similar chemical structure to morphine.

In a study done by Rutgers University on the influence coitus plays on a person’s senses, women were found to have their pain cut in half while climaxing, without changing sensitivity. A man or woman will enjoy the benefits of the pain reducing hormones for two whole days after sex!

The next time you have a headache, sore muscles, or even period cramps, solve your problem by popping clothes off, not bottles.

7) Supports Healthy Sleep

Especially for men, getting laid means getting sleepy. In studies about sleep deprivation and insomnia, an active sex life was shown to have more immediate results more than taking a medicinal sleep aid.

The hormones serotonin and prolactin are to thank for the euphoric and sleepy feeling we get immediately after climaxing, and nearly 60 percent of us experience this.

8) Boosts Your Allure

If you’ve ever felt like you get hit on more often when you have an active sex life, you were right.

When engaging in sex, a woman’s body will release high levels of estrogen and men release similar levels of testosterone. These extra hormones are secreted when you sweat as pheromones and are picked up by others through your scent. This will cause their body to naturally react, subconsciously preparing them to have sex with you!

The more sex you have, the more sex appeal your pheromones give off.

9) Releases Stress

If you’ve ever heard the term “sexual frustration”, you probably weren’t aware how accurately it describes the situation. Sex is a huge release of built up energy, but the euphoria felt after orgasm occurs after high levels of oxytocin are secreted by the body.

Men and women over 50 have even reported more positive feelings about life and aging.

10) Makes You More Attractive

Of course, sex promotes skin renewal because it is an aerobic form of exercise, but in addition it increases blood flow, oxygen, as well as estrogen. Estrogen is the hormone that regulates the production and absorption of our skin’s collagen and elastic fibers.

Not only will your skin look healthier for longer, having sex will give you a great body too!

11) Shortens Period Duration

Having sex doesn’t influence your actual ovulation cycle unless, of course, you get pregnant. However, in addition to reducing the pain and extent of cramps, the contractions that occur during orgasm do seem to shorten the length of the actual period for most women.

12) Raises Confidence / Self Esteem

The comfort and companionship received from a healthy sex life is often enough to change a person’s self worth and their outlook on life in general. While it seems small, having someone work to please you and visa versa can truly make a person feel important.

Feeling sexy, dating, and having positive sexual experiences are important and all work together to help a person feel even more capable of handling future social endeavors.

Positive associations you get from a banging sex life can help outside of the bedroom too!

13) Fights Depression

Half of intimacy’s role played on a person’s mental wellbeing is linked to companionship, however sex literally changes your chemical makeup to make you happier! When receiving sexual stimulation and while orgasming, our bodies naturally release doses of oxytocin, the hormone that makes us feel happy.

If you’ve ever felt “love stoned” or stupefied post coitis, that was the oxytocin doing its thing. Lower levels of oxytocin have been linked to postpartum depression in mothers as well as low levels of important thyroid hormones.

Having sex at least once a week is enough to keep you and your partner satisfied and happy.

14) Fortifies Bones

As regular sex boosts estrogen levels in women, it offers some protection against osteoporosis, a bone-thinning condition which is triggered by a lack of oestrogen.

In addition, oxytocin has been found to potentially increase bone density, so bone up if you want to keep a strong skeleton!

15) Battles Memory Loss

Men and women of any age who have regular and satisfying sex have displayed an increase in cranial nerve growth, crucial to mental alertness.

Men and women over 50 who have sex regularly score higher at memory and aptitude tests than those who don’t.

16) Makes you want to have more sex

Not only does frequent intercourse help men develop control, but it also aids a woman’s body in producing more lubrication, therefore making sex feel even better.

The chemicals released during intercourse and after orgasming help you further connect with your partner, and Oxytocin is positively linked to a tighter parent-child bond.

Whatever your reason for wanting to get laid, creating a profile on Victoria Milan is an incredibly quick and easy way to help you link up with a growing network of tons of sexy singles in your area. Get well and have fun having more sex!

Aside from procreating, sex is incredibly fun, and when done right has incredible benefits for both men and women. These are just some of the many positive outcomes of a healthy sex life, but feel free to try and find more with your partner!

The Perks of Dating a Cougar

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Cougar - (n.) A 30+ woman who specifically seeks out younger men to date or casually have sex with.

Madonna, Demi Moore, Gwen Stefani, JLo, Lisa Bonet and many other goddesses over the age of 45 are regarded as some of the hottest women in the world and have the pick of the litter when it comes to their dating pool. They seduce sexy young men and command fashion trends for stylish young women.

Milfs and Gilfs alike are coveted for their laid back demeanor and sexual prowess, and more young men are taking the wise approach and going straight to the source of knowledge. Experienced and horny ladies are out there just waiting to share their carefully acquired set of skills.

Dating sites like Victoria Milan bring you together with like minded women looking for the same thing you are. The site makes it easy to create an account, fill in your profile and start talking to cougars near you!

More men are realizing the incredible things older women have to offer. Like a fine wine, people get better with age and spending some quality time with someone several years your senior opens you up to a wealth of knowledge and opportunity.

Meet Your Sexual Guru

Being lucky enough to have sex with an experienced and wise cougar means getting to enjoy a woman while she is at her sexual prime.

Many women already mastered all the basics back in their twenties and have approached what will be known as an explorative era in many adult’s sex lives. Exploring sexual fantasies and testing limits is the name of the game, so be ready for some adventure.

Young men can be more open minded about new experiences and of course win in the case of endurance too with their seemingly endless youthful energy.

Older women will be more direct and upfront about what they want and what works for them. Take heed, as this precious wisdom was most likely painstakingly earned during the many awkward sexual encounters she had in her younger years.

Cougars Aren’t Clingy

The magic of dating an older woman stems from the fact that you are meeting each other in totally different stages of your lives. Your time together will most likely be short-lived, yet passionate. This allows for mystery and intrigue that just isn’t possible when dating someone near your age.

She has no desire to change her relationship status or yours, and has no time to play head games. The pace of your lives is different enough there’s no time for much else besides some hot dates and steamy love making sessions.

The network on Victoria Milan was designed to cut out all the frill and make finding a match easier. By allowing users to customize their search each time, we make it easier to find exactly what you’re looking for in casual dating and steer clear of what you’re not.

Along the way to her rise to success in her career, she has made many important connections. Having friends in the business world serves as a free retainer, assisting with any future endeavors.

Get in with the right people and it could mean making important business connections of your very own. Any alliance made now can win your favor in the future, so don’t burn bridges.

Try to befriend her business correspondents, and do so by jumping at her invitations to social functions and be the best arm candy possible.

She Oozes Confidence

One of the best parts of dating cougars is enjoying their poise. Their certainty means less insecurities and drama than you’re used to. Don’t expect her to be concerning herself with where you’re going or who you’re talking to.

Cougars can be more assertive because they know what they want and they’re not afraid of going after it. Enjoy letting her take charge for once, it can be really hot.

She is Independent

In many ways, age really is just a number when you’re dating someone. The true cougar is young-spirited and wild, preferring the fast pace and passionate sex that dating younger guys can offer.

They aren’t looking for a long term relationship so they aren’t as concerned with what their partner is up to. This results in less tension and easier communication, since their common goal is to have fun with each other, rather than stressing about fitting together perfectly. Mature women are more likely to treat you to a night out, which is something many young men have never experienced. Enjoying the reduced burden of dating someone who is more emotionally and financially stable gives a person more opportunity to reserve that energy for more intimate aspects of the relationship.

Not only can it be quite a relief to be the one being wined-and-dined for a change, but the pursuit can be incredibly sexy and invigorating.

She Takes Control

As you may know, in the case of the great lion, or king of cats, the lioness commands the family unit. They are in charge of protecting and providing for the whole group. For our sense, women are the same.

They are forward, demand great dates and great sex, and they will also take charge. Many men new to cougar dating are taken aback at first by the contrast in personality between younger ladies and experienced women, but her ability to take charge will keep you coming back.

Don’t be surprised when she calls the shots on the best spot to eat, chooses date locations, and which position to try next. Her tenacity may compel her to pick up the tab or take you on a weekend adventure out of town.

The cougar is confident, successful and she takes what she wants from life, which is something we all certainly can stand to learn from.

She enjoys a break from the men her age who push marriage while you get to relax with a fun, successful, and seductive woman. This allows the relationship to be passionate while remaining neutral. Enjoying the moment without letting the past drag you down or the future stress you out.

Just as in any atypical relationship, cougar dating has its haters, who try to downplay the validity of your differences, but if the feeling is there you should go for it. There’s a lot to learn and even more fun to be had while cougar dating.

Since it still isn’t a mainstream type of encounter, Victoria Milan takes the difficulty out of casual dating. Why make something more difficult than it needs to be? With a community of 6 million members, it’s easy to find sexy cougars no matter where you are.

Exploring the Most Common Fetishes

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When it comes to sex, despite all the good parts, things can get a little weird sometimes. Not only are you exposing yourself to another person, but the strangest part can come at any moment when your partner asks:

“Would you like to try ...?”

Exploring fetishes is a great way to get to know a new lover or keep things fresh and exciting with your partner. If the suggestion of solicitous activities is unknown to you, it can be a scary question, so arm yourself with the power of knowledge.

What Exactly is a Fetish?

Fetish (n.) any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation. 

A fetish, also known as a paraphilia, is much like a person’s sexual preference, in that it comes naturally but some fetishes are more mainstream than others, sometimes even being seen as unnatural or deviant. Some fetishes have more than one term to describe them, and many overlap with others.

In contrast, paraphilic disorders are life impairing sexual urges which involve children, unconsenting adults, self harm, or humiliation and often results in taboo or illegal behavior.

A fetish is something a person craves so much that it can make or break a good sexual experience.
It is different from a kink in that someone who is inherently kinky is someone who enjoys exploring many different sexual interests while a fetish is a specific sexual fixation.

While it is not 100% needed every time sex occurs, including your lovers fetish guarantees a memorable time. It certainly doesn’t hurt to try something new either, unless you’re into that sort of thing ;)

7 Common Fetishes For Beginners

Foot Fetish / Podophilia

Feet are the most popular body part to lust after, although the fetish is predominantly enjoyed by men. Foot worship is all about humility. Think, serving a goddess and gratefully staying there when you fall to her feet.

The fetish can extend to hosiery or shoes, but doesn’t always, probably due to the eroticized imagery around high heels. Foot Fetishism falls under the umbrella fetish partialism, which is the attraction to any body parts other than genitals.

A foot worshiper appreciates the aesthetic of the foot. They can become aroused just by looking, touching, or involving feet in sex somehow.

How To Begin:

Give a pedicure or foot massage to ease them in.
Buy her a cute toe ring or an ankle bracelet and have her model the new gifts.
Pick out her shoes for the date so you can see her in your favorite pair.

Butt Fetish / Pygophilia

Sexualization of the derriere can be seen throughout history, especially toward females, but women appreciate a nice booty just as much as men.

A shapely butt is a sign of youth and a biological indicator of fertility, explaining the unwavering history of booty popularity. An ass man(or woman) not only appreciates the sloping nuances of butts, but also enjoy squeezing, caressing and slapping them.

Of course, this often includes anal eroticism and anal sex, and you guessed it, butt fetishism is also a subdivision of partialism.

How To Begin:

Buy her a sexy pair of panties to try on for you.
Ask your partner if you can spank them during sex.
Give her a butt massage after her long day - she’ll be the one thanking you!

Voyeurism

This incredibly common fetish is one you might be unaware you have. If you get turned browsing pornography or adult magazines, you are a voyeur. It can watching online or in person.

As young people, we are taught that nudity is private. Even as we got older, mere conversations regarding the naked body and intimacy were only to happen behind closed doors. This fetish explores the forbidden.

When a couple involve a third party in their sex, it is called cuckolding, cuckqueaning, or troilism.

It doesn’t always have to be watching sex, sometimes seeing someone get undressed can be enough to turn on a voyeur. When the person is unaware or unconsenting, however, watching crosses into peeping-tom territory and can easily land you in jail.

How To Begin:

Watch porn or play it in the background while getting frisky with your date.
Set up a threesome on adult dating sites like and Victoria Milan.
If cucking is too risque for you, having sex with your partner in front of a mirror or recording it to watch later are fun ways to replicate the scenario.

Exhibitionism

While a voyeur enjoys watching others, an exhibitionist wants to be watched. Just like voyeurism, the idea is breaking social barriers and doing something inherently “naughty”.

Most people fear being walked in on while changing or while making love, but exhibitionism alternatively pushes the boundaries of comfort.

This fetish gets a bad wrap because of the association to flashers exposing their junk to unsuspecting strangers, but that’s actually exhibitionism disorder.

How To Begin:

Have sex with your partner near an open window. Bonus points if it’s daytime!
Log onto your favorite adult dating website and find someone who wants to watch.
Try masturbating in front of or with your partner.

Narratophilia

This is all about sexual communication and takes many forms including sexting, adult chatting, dirty talking, and reading erotic novels.

Narratophiliacs are people who get hot and heavy when they read or create sexual content. Judging by the hype on 50 Shades of Grey, there are plenty out there.

Using or listening to obscene or lustful words goes against our expectation to be proper and in that way feels rebellious and bad. Exploring your sexuality through perverse linguistics can be incredibly stimulating.

How To Begin:

Send your sexual partner a quick text about what you’d like to do later while they’re together. If you’re lucky, they’ll reply.
Suggest listening to an audio version of your favorite erotic novel.
Call your date before your scheduled meeting time and elaborate on some ideas for the intimate part of the date.

BDSM

Bdsm, short for bondage, domination, sadism, masochism,is a blanketing term identifying many sexual niches, which describes the interplay between a dominant and submissive.

In all subdivisions of BDSM, both partners are willing and usually discuss boundaries and employ “safe words” ahead of time to ensure everyone has a good time.

How To Begin:

Ask your partner to tell you exactly what they’d like you to do.
Try using handcuffs and a blindfold to heighten foreplay.
Ask your lover to bite, scratch, spank, or slap you. Agree on location and intensity in advance.

Pictophilia

If the person you’re watching is looking provocative or if they’re actually engaging in sexual activity, it’s no wonder someone might get turned on.

If you’ve ever watched porn, fawned over sexy imagery, or even had a celebrity crush, you are a pictophiliac. We all know appearances make the first impression, but for someone who is into pictophilia, the visual component is the main focus.

This is the most common fetish for men and women alike and it makes total sense. It all stems back to the biological role a person’s aesthetic plays on attraction. When you’re interacting with a person, sight plays a huge role on how you perceive them and if you are attracted.

How To Begin:

Set up your rear facing camera on a computer or laptop and enjoy watching you and your lover have sex, or record it to watch later.
Share your favorite type of porn with your partner.
Stage an erotic photoshoot with your date.

Sex is about having fun, feeling good, and exploring your partner. If anything feels weird or bad to you, don’t do it. If your date suggests something that’s just not for you, suggest an alternative that’s more your style.

Just as there are infinite types of people, there are limitless ways to interpret sexuality, resulting in many fetishes. The best part about finding your sex partner with Victoria Milan is that we allow you to customize your search results to only include your favorite fetishes in the results.

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Not on the Lips - Is Not Kissing the New Black?

Why the Sudden Turn on Kissing?

Globally

Weighing Your Options

Kissing “Pros”

1. Boosted immune system

2. Decreases Stress

3. Reduces Blood Pressure

4. Helps Ward Off Cavities

5. Burns Calories

Kissing “Cons”

1. It’s Like Drinking Love Potion

2. It’s a Biological Sign of Trust

3. It’s the Most Balanced Foreplay.

4. It Can Make or Break Your Date.

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How to Get Away With Sexting at Work

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The Trick to Sexting At Work

If you’re sexting your partner while they’re at work:

Micro-cheating - The subtle betrayal

What is Micro-cheating?

10 examples of micro-cheating:

The Research Study

How to Master the Open Marriage?

What about Divorce or Not Marrying?

Can You Cheat in an Open Marriage?

Types of Open Marriages

Swinging

Group

Cuckolding

Partner-Swapping

How to Suggest an Open Marriage

Us We’s.

Avoid the Lingo.

Let Them Go First.

Communicate Now, Fuck Later.

Rework and Try Again.

Planning to Open Up

Why You Should Have More Sex Today?

1) Strengthens Immune System

2) Improves Pelvic Strength

3) Reduces Risk for Prostate Cancer

4) Easy Exercise

5) Helps Heart Health

6) Natural Pain Killer

7) Supports Healthy Sleep

8) Boosts Your Allure

9) Releases Stress

10) Makes You More Attractive

11) Shortens Period Duration

12) Raises Confidence / Self Esteem

13) Fights Depression

14) Fortifies Bones

15) Battles Memory Loss

16) Makes you want to have more sex

The Perks of Dating a Cougar

Meet Your Sexual Guru

Cougars Aren’t Clingy

Seek Social Connections

She Oozes Confidence

She is Independent

She Takes Control

Exploring the Most Common Fetishes

What Exactly is a Fetish?

7 Common Fetishes For Beginners

Foot Fetish / Podophilia

How To Begin:

Butt Fetish / Pygophilia

How To Begin:

Voyeurism

How To Begin: